Tribute to friends

When picking out a gift for a friend years ago, I chanced upon this message printed on a bookmark, 'Friends are families we pick for ourselves.'. Many years have gone by, and I still clung on to this message dearly, like a motto in my life.
Indeed, sometimes the hardest moments in your life were made possible because you had the company of your friends. Death of a loved one, doing badly in school.. You've cried, lashed out, and they were always there for you, offering their patient ears and concern. It might take hours to listen to you; it might take days, if not months, to help you resolve the problems, but they never once complained. Because you mattered to them.

So when I heard a speech given at a friend's birthday party recently, I couldn't help but feel emotions welling up in me. The way she expressed her gratitude to all those who attended, and for helping her in some way or the other throughout various stages of her life - that was no simple thank-you; it was an expression of love.

To Dorcas: I am really flattered to have you as a friend, and throughout the 8 years we have known each other, we have progressed from mere acquaintance to really good friends. Thank you for the support you've lent me, whenever I landed in lots of trouble in CHS, or since KC departed and I always needed some company. The party was awesome, and I'm sure we all had fun last night. I look forward to seeing you soon, and more importantly, happy birthday. :) We will finish this current phase of life together, and remember our graduation trip in 2012!

 

Dear Huisi: On and off we would meet up, sharing our lives' moments and chatting about everything we can. We had our fair share of lovely banter ( I do enjoy them so much!) and those not-so-lovely disputes. But I'm glad we still made it through as friends for 4 years. You made my poly life more interesting than I could possibly imagine. I know, your birthdate isn't on the most favourable day this year (Friday!) and certainly most of us aren't free to celebrate this defining moment for you. The good side is, we get to have a joint celebration together. It won't be the most fun or exciting celebration, but I know I'll be surrounded by dear friends that day who really matter (though they seem intent on turning it

into a 'we've-been-friends-for-four-years celebration').Yes, I'll be honoured to celebrate my 21st with you. I look forward to that, but meanwhile, happy birthday in advance! I hope you have fun that day.

I love the concept of the photo collage. It was like showing people whom you cherish that you do remember the unforgettable moments you shared with them, and they are an important part of your life.

So here, I say, I love you guys.